Two Words That Changed My Public Speaking Forever

Two Words That Changed My Public Speaking Forever
By Christopher Carlin

Isn't it ironic that despite the fact that I have read many books, purchased many products and substantially invested in myself, the best public speaking tip that I have received is only two words long? Two very simple words changed my thinking on public speaking more than any textbook, audio or video ever has.

I first heard these two words from James Malinchak, the famous youth, college and inspirational speaker. I have heard it a few times from other speakers since, but James was the first to bring it to my attention.

Are you ready for two words that will change your public speaking forever?

Here they are...

BE YOURSELF!

That's it!

How many times have people told you that when you are on stage you have to improve your vocabulary, or you have to dress up, or you have to stand on the spot? It gets you thinking that you have to be "ultra-professional" on stage. Because of this you usually get nervous thinking about things that don't really matter!

Going back to James Malinchak, I have listened to a few of his audios and he repeatedly states that he is not one of the most technically correct speakers. He says that "the most technically correct and well polished speakers are usually the worst because people don't relate to them. (From Big Money Speaker)"

It is so true!

We relate to people who are like us! When was the last time you related to someone who drives a Ferrari, wears a million dollar suit and never uses words that are less than ten letters long? I never have, and I am guessing that you haven't either. That's because we don't relate to these people..

So when you are on stage, don't pretend to be someone else. Forget about all of the technical aspects of public speaking. Be yourself!

Don't get me wrong, don't scrap technical training altogether. If you do have problems that are having a negative effect on your presentation, then I would seriously consider trying to solve and/or prevent them. For example, I used to(and still do to a lesser extent) rock on stage, and it was making me look like an idiot!

But whatever you do, don't try to change your personality! If you are have an energetic, happy personality, don't try and change it because you are on stage presenting a speech! Let your true personality show. An example for me would be that I don't possess a detailed vocabulary. These articles are about as technical and as hi-tech as I get! I am an Aussie and I always use slang and colloquialisms. (One of my favourite quotes that I use is "I'm Australian born and bred, long in the legs and thick in the head!") So why should I change that when I am on stage? Why should I pretend to be someone else, someone that I am not, when I am public speaking?

So when you are on stage just be yourself. You will find that you are more relaxed, your audience will relate to you more and your message will come across better. Don't try and pretend to be someone you're not just to try and impress your audience, because ninety-nine times out of a hundred you will fail.

BE YOURSELF!

I have been Public Speaking for over six years, and I want to share with you twenty public speaking tips which will enhance your public speaking skills. www.successful-speaking.com

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Connecting With Your Audience Authentically

Connecting With Your Audience Authentically
By Amonda Rose Igoe

Before we get started, I want you to know that I created this tip for everyone. Whether you are a seasoned speaker or you have a desire to conquer your fear of public speaking, my tips were written for everyone. Read them. They're important. If you don't, you will miss the opportunity to learn from my mistakes and my successes. I have paid thousands of dollars and spent years educating myself on learning the art of public speaking. I am passionate (magnificently obsessed) about teaching others how to be confident, powerful, and dynamic speakers.

Great Public Speaking Tip - Connecting With Your Audience Authentically

You may remember the famous "Odd Couple" television episode where Felix says to Oscar, "When you assume, you make an Ass out of U and Me."

From my own personal experiences, I know Felix was right. I have assumed way too many times in the past. And yes, it has left me feeling - and perhaps looking - like a jackass.

Recently, I was speaking to a community group. I was sharing a story about one of my dogs named Serena and some of the unusual things she puts in her mouth, like lizards. I thought I was very clear in my communication, until someone approached me afterwards and politely said to me, "I was surprised that you let your daughterr put lizards in her mouth."

Ugh! That was not the lasting impression I wanted to make. I thought I was clear in saying that Serena was a dog. Obviously, I learned a valuable lesson. Even the best speakers need to relearn valuable lessons from time to time.

Never assume anything about your audience.

We can never assume that our audience knows what we are talking about. I have seen way too many individuals use their business lingo when talking to an audience of potential customers, and find out later that the audience had no idea what the speaker was talking about. And on top of that, most people in the audience fear looking foolish, so they don't ask questions.

Whenever you are speaking to a group, I would recommend that you do several things:

• Repeat what you are trying to say in several different ways until there is absolutely no way they could miss the message you are trying to communicate.


• Always ask your audience questions to determine if they truly understand the information or are just nodding their heads. If your audience looks away when you ask questions, they are definitely not getting it.


• Look out for puzzled faces. Your audience is your greatest barometer to tell if you are effectively communicating your message. If they are getting your message, their eyes will be on you.

Are Your Ready to Learn More?

Get Started Now. Schedule an appointment with Amonda Rose for your FREE 30 Minute Public Speaking Coaching Session. Call Amonda Rose today at 561-498-8919.

One can know everything about any topic, even their own business, however if that person is unable to communicate their ideas effectively to their prospective clients, they may never have the level of true success they desire.

For more information about Amonda Rose, visit http://www.ChampionsWithVision.com to learn how she can help anyone move from Fearful and Doubtful to Confident and Dynamic. Amonda Rose uses the most advanced Public Speaking and Communication Techniques to help the beginner to the advanced students excel.

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